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Divorce & Separation Procedures
Overview
In Australia, you can apply for a divorce after you and your spouse have been separated for at least 12 months. You don't need to prove anyone was at fault โ Australia has a 'no-fault' divorce system. You can apply jointly or on your own through the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA). Separation can occur even while living under the same roof, but you may need to provide extra evidence.
Common Questions
How long do I need to be separated before I can apply for divorce?
You must be separated for at least 12 months and one day before you can file for divorce. The separation period can include time living under the same roof, but you'll need to show the relationship had genuinely ended.
What's the difference between separation and divorce?
Separation is when you and your partner stop living together as a couple โ it's a personal decision and doesn't require any legal paperwork. Divorce is the legal process that officially ends your marriage. You need a court order for divorce, but not for separation.
How much does it cost to file for divorce?
The court filing fee for a divorce application is currently around $1,060 (as of 2025/2026). If you're experiencing financial hardship, you can apply for a reduced fee. Legal aid may also be available in some circumstances.
Do I need a lawyer to get divorced?
No, you can apply for divorce yourself through the FCFCOA's online portal (Commonwealth Courts Portal). However, if there are complex issues like property or children involved, it's a good idea to get legal advice.
What happens to our property when we divorce?
Divorce and property settlement are separate legal processes. Getting a divorce doesn't automatically divide your property. You have 12 months after your divorce becomes final to apply for property orders, so it's important not to leave it too late.
Topic 2 of 8
Parenting Orders & Custody
Overview
Parenting orders are court orders that set out the arrangements for children after parents separate. They cover who the children live with, how much time they spend with each parent, and other important matters like schooling and medical decisions. The court's main concern is always the best interests of the child. Since the 2023 reforms, the old presumption of 'equal shared parental responsibility' has been removed โ the court now focuses on what arrangement best promotes each child's wellbeing.
Common Questions
What's the difference between a parenting plan and a parenting order?
A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents โ it's not enforceable by the court. A parenting order is made by the court and is legally binding. If someone breaches a parenting order, there can be serious consequences including fines or changes to the order.
Do I have to go to mediation before going to court?
In most cases, yes. You need to attend family dispute resolution (FDR) and get a certificate before you can apply to court for parenting orders. There are exceptions โ for example, if there's family violence or child abuse, or if the matter is urgent.
What does the court consider when making parenting orders?
The court looks at the best interests of the child, including: the benefit of having a meaningful relationship with both parents, protecting the child from harm, the child's views (depending on age and maturity), each parent's capacity to provide for the child, and the practical difficulty of proposed arrangements.
Can I relocate with my children after separation?
If there are parenting orders in place, you generally can't relocate without the other parent's agreement or a court order. If you want to move, you'll need to either reach an agreement with the other parent or apply to the court to vary the orders.
At what age can a child decide which parent to live with?
There's no set age where a child can 'choose'. The court will consider a child's views, giving them more weight as the child gets older and more mature. But the child's wishes are just one factor โ the court always prioritises the child's best interests overall.
Topic 3 of 8
Child Support Calculations
Overview
Child support in Australia is managed by Services Australia (Child Support). The amount is calculated using a formula that takes into account both parents' incomes, the percentage of care each parent provides, the ages and number of children, and the costs of raising children. You can have an administrative assessment (calculated by Services Australia), make a private agreement, or apply to the court for a child support order.
Common Questions
How is child support calculated?
Services Australia uses an 8-step formula. It starts with each parent's taxable income, subtracts a 'self-support amount' (about $28,000), then works out each parent's share of the costs of the children based on their income percentage and care percentage. The more care you provide, the less child support you pay (or the more you receive).
What if my ex isn't paying child support?
If you have an administrative assessment or registered agreement, Services Australia can collect child support on your behalf. They can garnish wages, intercept tax refunds, and take other enforcement action. If you have a private arrangement and your ex stops paying, you may need to register it with Services Australia.
Can child support be changed?
Yes. If your circumstances change (income changes, care arrangements change, a child turns 13), you can apply for a reassessment. You can also apply for a 'change of assessment' if you believe the formula doesn't reflect the true situation โ for example, if the other parent has hidden income.
Does child support cover school fees and medical expenses?
The basic child support amount is meant to cover general living costs. For extras like private school fees, medical expenses, or extracurricular activities, parents can negotiate separately or apply to Services Australia for a decision on these costs.
Topic 4 of 8
Property Settlement & Division
Overview
Property settlement is the process of dividing assets, debts, and financial resources after a relationship ends. In Australia, the court follows a four-step process: identify and value the total asset pool, assess each person's financial and non-financial contributions, consider future needs (like earning capacity, health, and care of children), and check that the overall result is just and equitable. There are strict time limits โ 12 months after divorce for married couples, or 2 years after separation for de facto couples.
Common Questions
Is everything split 50/50?
Not necessarily. There's no automatic 50/50 split in Australia. The court looks at each person's contributions (financial and non-financial, including homemaking and parenting) and future needs. The result depends on the specific circumstances of your case โ it could be 60/40, 70/30, or any other split the court considers fair.
What counts as 'property' in a settlement?
Property includes everything owned by either or both of you: the family home, investment properties, bank accounts, shares, businesses, cars, superannuation, and even debts like mortgages and credit cards. It includes assets acquired before, during, and sometimes after the relationship.
What about superannuation?
Superannuation is treated as property and can be split as part of a settlement. It's handled separately from other assets through a process called 'superannuation splitting'. You'll need to get a valuation of both parties' super and it can be divided by agreement or court order.
Do I need to go to court for property settlement?
No โ most property settlements are resolved by agreement, either through negotiation, mediation, or collaborative law. You can formalise your agreement through consent orders (approved by the court) or a binding financial agreement. Going to court is usually a last resort.
What's a binding financial agreement (pre-nup)?
A binding financial agreement (BFA) is a private contract between partners about how property will be divided if the relationship ends. It can be made before, during, or after a relationship. Both parties must get independent legal advice for it to be valid.
Topic 5 of 8
Spousal Maintenance
Overview
Spousal maintenance is financial support paid by one spouse or de facto partner to the other after separation, when that person can't adequately support themselves. It's not automatic โ you need to show that you're unable to meet your own reasonable living expenses and that your former partner has the capacity to pay. The court considers factors like age, health, earning capacity, the standard of living during the relationship, and the duration of the relationship.
Common Questions
Who can claim spousal maintenance?
Either spouse (or de facto partner) can claim maintenance if they can't adequately support themselves. Common situations include where one partner gave up their career to raise children, has a health condition that limits their ability to work, or needs time to retrain and re-enter the workforce.
How long does spousal maintenance last?
There's no set duration. It depends on the circumstances. Sometimes it's for a fixed period (e.g., while someone retrains), sometimes it's ongoing. Either party can apply to have it varied or stopped if circumstances change significantly.
Is spousal maintenance the same as child support?
No, they're completely separate. Child support is for the costs of raising children. Spousal maintenance is for the living expenses of a former partner who can't adequately support themselves. You can receive both at the same time.
Can I get urgent spousal maintenance?
Yes. If you're in immediate financial hardship after separation, you can apply for urgent (interim) spousal maintenance. The court can make temporary orders quickly while the broader financial matters are being sorted out.
Topic 6 of 8
Family Law Court Procedures
Overview
Family law matters in Australia are handled by the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA), which was created in September 2021 by merging the Family Court and the Federal Circuit Court. Western Australia has its own Family Court. The court process typically involves filing an application, attending a first hearing, possibly going through a family report process, and then a final hearing if the matter can't be resolved. Most cases settle before reaching a final hearing.
Common Questions
How do I start a family law case?
You file an application through the Commonwealth Courts Portal (online) or at a court registry. For parenting matters, you usually need a family dispute resolution (FDR) certificate first. For financial matters, you can file directly. The court will then set a first hearing date.
How long does a family law case take?
It varies widely. Simple consent orders can be processed in weeks. Contested matters can take 12-24 months or longer, depending on complexity and court backlogs. Urgent matters (like family violence or child safety) can be heard much faster.
What is an independent children's lawyer?
An independent children's lawyer (ICL) is a lawyer appointed by the court to represent the best interests of the children in parenting disputes. They don't take instructions from either parent โ their job is to ensure the court has all the information it needs to make the best decision for the children.
Do I have to go to court in person?
Many hearings are now conducted by video or telephone, especially procedural hearings. Final hearings are more likely to be in person, but the court has become more flexible since COVID. Your lawyer can advise on what to expect for your specific matter.
Topic 7 of 8
De Facto Relationships
Overview
De facto relationships are recognised under Australian family law, and de facto partners have similar rights to married couples when it comes to property settlement and spousal maintenance. Since 2009, the Family Law Act covers de facto relationships in most states (WA has separate legislation). To be considered de facto, you generally need to show you lived together on a genuine domestic basis โ the court looks at factors like the duration of the relationship, financial arrangements, and whether there was a sexual relationship.
Common Questions
How do I prove a de facto relationship existed?
The court looks at several factors: how long you lived together, the nature of your household arrangements, whether there was a sexual relationship, financial dependence or interdependence, ownership of property, care of children, and your public reputation as a couple. No single factor is decisive โ it's the overall picture.
How long do you need to live together to be de facto?
There's no minimum period, but the court generally requires a relationship of at least 2 years to access property settlement rights โ unless there's a child of the relationship, or one party made substantial contributions. Same-sex couples have the same rights as opposite-sex de facto couples.
Can de facto partners get spousal maintenance?
Yes. De facto partners can apply for spousal maintenance on the same basis as married couples. The same eligibility criteria apply โ you need to show you can't adequately support yourself and your former partner has the capacity to pay.
What about property settlement for de facto couples?
The process is essentially the same as for married couples โ the same four-step process applies. The main difference is the time limit: de facto couples have 2 years from the date of separation to apply for property orders (compared to 12 months after divorce for married couples).
Topic 8 of 8
Domestic Violence Orders
Overview
Family violence is taken very seriously in Australian family law. It includes physical, sexual, emotional, psychological, and financial abuse, as well as coercive and controlling behaviour. Each state has its own protection order system (AVOs in NSW, IVOs in Victoria, DVOs in Queensland). Family violence is also a key factor the court considers when making parenting orders. If you or your children are at risk, there are urgent pathways available through both state courts and the family law system.
Common Questions
What counts as family violence?
Under the Family Law Act, family violence includes: physical assault, sexual assault, stalking, repeated threats, property damage, preventing contact with family/friends, financial control, and any behaviour that coerces or controls a family member or causes them to be fearful. It doesn't have to be physical.
How do I get a protection order?
You can apply through your local court (magistrates court) or police can apply on your behalf. In urgent situations, police can issue an interim order immediately. Each state has a slightly different process โ in NSW it's an AVO (Apprehended Violence Order), in Victoria it's an IVO (Intervention Order), and in Queensland it's a DVO (Domestic Violence Order).
How does family violence affect parenting orders?
Family violence is a major factor the court considers. The court must ensure children are protected from harm, including exposure to family violence. A history of violence can affect how much time a parent spends with children, whether visits are supervised, and other conditions of parenting orders.
Where can I get help right now?
If you're in immediate danger, call 000. For support and advice: 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) โ 24/7 national helpline. Lifeline (13 11 14) for crisis support. Legal Aid in your state can provide free legal advice. Many community legal centres also specialise in family violence matters.

